on being....

A Wife

At first, I thought being a wife was as easy as ABC but after sometime, it actually isn't so easy. I mean, you have to please the hubby, the family and everyone in between. No, I am not complaining. I am just saying, being a wife to someone so wonderful is just not so easy.

I reckon, some relationships should be thought about several times before commiting. I've never regretted on getting married so early, even until now, I am not regretting. I love being married.

Being married, to me, is like being with my buddy for the rest of my life. I need not look anywhere else for someone to cry, laugh, hug, kiss and everything in between with.

You wake up in the morning, you have someone who hugs and kisses you. You sleep at night and there he is again, kissing and huggin you until you sleep. In the middle of the day, when something goes wrong, he is there for you to talk to. Isn't that wonderful?

A Mother

There are no words on how I feel about being a mother. Everything is just perfect. I know most of you who 'actually' reads this will say, "But you have a maid who takes care of your child most of the time." Yes, I have a maid, but there are times when I do actually spend time with my son and he is just so wonderful.

The moment he was born, I knew that I was already a better person. Hey, you can't blame me, I actually gave birth to a child. A child came out of me. He was inside of me for 9 months.

Wait for my next child. (=

A Daugther

My relationship with my parents was not perfect. I was definitely NOT a perfect daughter to them either. I rebelled as much as I could. I definitely was not a good child.

However, over the years, we mended our differences. We talked our differences and now, we have a better relationship. Ok, maybe getting married made it better but hey, at least it is better.

I love how they still think that I am still their baby girl, even if I already have my own baby. (= My parents are the best. I am ever so grateful to have parents like them.

Spoiled

ok, I know smile, I have said several times that I am *NOT* spoiled. However, after a while, I realised how *gasp* spoiled I am. As Cheryll puts it, I am not spoiled just blessed.

My hunny bunny has been giving me everything he absolutely can and I am ever so grateful to be his wife, life partner and mother of his child(ren).